Respond Constructively to Criticism

Under guidelines for creating and sustaining healthy climates, the concept I found interesting and helpful is respond constructively to criticism. In any relationship, there are positives and negatives. An event that could lead to tension and conflict in a relationship is when we criticize the other person. However, it is important to seek information when we are criticized, and to consider it thoughtfully as the text states. Usually when one is criticized for a certain behavior or action, they get defensive. That is why as the two constructive responses I mentioned above are crucial in leading us to respond constructively to criticism is very imperative. For example, I tend to be criticized for not being able to take a compliment. I love to give them, however when it comes to receiving them, I do not do so well so people have mentioned that to me before. The first few times I heard it, I was thinking that is semi true, and partly false. However, a few times more that I was criticized for it, it made me think twice. So now if that happens, I ask those who told me, if they can elaborate on why they feel that is a true and valid accusation they are stating and then I thank the individuals for helping me to improve myself and my habits. It is always to be aware of our habits and what bothers or may offend others we are around. Criticism is never an easy thing to go through or actually critique, however no one is perfect in life, so there is always room for improvement in everyone and everything. That is why I found this concept to be very helpful and interesting because I can use the knowledge from this concept in our text and apply it to my every day life.